A big mistake most of us make in relationships is getting caught up in trying to prove ourselves to the other person.
People only fall in love with those they feel secure around.
If you have an agenda and see him as a means to fill a void within yourself, he will feel it and his guard will reflexively go up, making it impossible to develop a real connection.
Instead of running away, she sees the good in him, the positive qualities, the man he She empathizes with his situation and hopes her love will heal him.
Then she gets upset when this guy who has never had a serious relationship in his life doesn’t want a serious relationship with her, or fools around with other girls. You can’t invest in a guy who clearly isn’t marriage material and then get upset when he won’t give you the commitment you want.
they didn’t choose the right man to get involved with.